Why would a spouse cheat if the marriage is good?

Millions of excuses - Reasons - constant fighting - arguments- And always something wrong with the other- no self reflection -

My own imperfections is not the reason - you see …. !

Nothing perfect - It's not acceptable if it's not perfect - but only the other one !

Why did my 2001 4.6 liter Mustang GT V8 make "only" 260 HP while today's base Dodge 3.6 liter V6 churns out almost 300 HP? Both benefit from fuel injection and ECUs.

Grass looks green elsewhere - begins the cheating - And to get what - ? SEX.

For exciting and intensely satisfying sex that is deprived or denied or not understood of each other's needs - quick judgments " My husband watches porn " If it's not porn - it's his drinking - he spends more time with his friends- he doesn't share the work around the house - he doesn't talk - doesn't respect my family - not working enough - Headaches - Fibromyalgia- TMJ - size - ED and the list grows from a page to a size of 2 PDR's.

so begins the first step heading towards separation and divorce which becomes the battle ground- my TV - my sofa - my bed - my - my - my ……..

What is the Abu Shusha massacre in Palestine?

Point being - Marriage seems to be good to others - it's not - it has no passion in it - and two people come to live together as room mates and share their expense - to keep their secret from others the lips get sealed - of having separate beds and separate accounts